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"Sure Jesus could restore my physical and spiritual virginity, especially if I lost it to some rapist, but who wants that? I'm saving myself for marriage, and I'll use force if necessary." -Hilary Faye

Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Ouch

A sent a text message yesterday that said “You and I have plans tonight, I will see you at 10.” He has been getting impatient with my constant turn downs of his offers to go out, but he has been asking me out to lunch then dinner every day since we met.

I like a man who takes control and I was impressed with the tone of the text message, so I said ok.

So I went out to dinner with my sister and headed home and took a nap. When I got up from my nap I had the worst headache ever. I took all sorts of medications and nothing would make it go away, so eventually I sent him a message telling him to please not be pissed but I had to cancel.

Pissed didn’t even begin to cover his reaction. He was livid.

He called me and said that he was done making time for me.

This is so not my week when it comes to guys.

18 Comments:

At 9:13 AM, Blogger nerdboy said...

OK. Trying to be totally fair, here. I can see why he'd be angry, since you've admittedly turned him down numerous times.

But.

At the same time, damn, dude... let a woman breathe! Let a woman miss you! Asking someone out multiple times every day borders on smothering. Maybe your headache was a subconcious reaction to feeling smothered? I dunno.

 
At 9:14 AM, Blogger Dr. Syn said...

Greetings............My worthless opinion.....move on & don't let it bother you. His comment of, "..done making time for you..." is an item of concern (or note, if you want). Is he trying to make you feel bad, because "HE" was making time for you? I'm probably wrong, but shouldn't the guy just want to see you (among other things) & not demand that you fit into the allocated time slot? My worthless words of wisdom were brought to you by, a lack of sleep....cheers!

 
At 9:15 AM, Blogger yournamehere said...

I this the "Hey, mamma" guy? If so, he's mad because he had a brand new velvet suit and wide-brimmed hat he wanted to show off.

 
At 9:47 AM, Blogger Stairwell said...

Ouch! Maybe he'll cool off after a day or so.

For someone with so many "irons in the fire," he seems very demanding.

 
At 10:41 AM, Blogger Kellee said...

Late, smothering, incabable of being turned down...uh can you say psycho? How about restraining order? Stalker? Any of these words fit?

Think of it like this, "Hey, I had a good time, I got to make out with a hottie, I got to go to an awesome club & be groped. I'm good to go." And then back away very slowly. Any sudden movements might set him off.

 
At 12:17 PM, Blogger tracie said...

Yikes.. I hate when you have to cancel and it is totally legit and ppl freak..

Take care
have a great day
tracie

 
At 12:31 PM, Blogger The Funky Bee said...

DAYUM! He doesn't take rejection well. That sucks but you know what? There are more where he came from. NEXT...

 
At 1:05 PM, Blogger Lightning Bug's Butt said...

Nothing a hummer won't fix.

 
At 2:46 PM, Blogger ago-go said...

yikes! maybe you should have phoned.

 
At 2:59 PM, Blogger Troy said...

Sounds to me like this is for the best; you sound like you could use some breathing room. There are plenty other of us guys available for you out there, so go out there and get one. ;)

 
At 3:06 PM, Blogger Princess Steph said...

nerd- that's the thing, he was asking SO often it was odd. I really did feel bad about cancelling.

dr- yeah, i was highly offended by that comment- like he's doing ME a favor????

Todd- is that jealosy coming out? I hope so.... ;)

Stair- I totally agree. He knew exactly what I was looking for, you would think he would do his best to make that happen!

k- lol- agreed. but he is so fucking pretty...... i just wanted to see him naked at least once. or twice.

 
At 3:08 PM, Blogger Princess Steph said...

tracie- i agree, but i did it a lot to him. :( bad me.

bee- but I wanted that one dammit!

bug- yes, i believe that would fix things... if only he would let me try.....

go-go- I did try calling but he didnt answer, so i sent the text. i knew either way it was going to be bad.

Troy- I might do just that at happy hour 2nite

 
At 6:13 PM, Blogger michele said...

Drop that zero and get a hero...
you gotta always be you no matter what.Stop by for a visit.

 
At 5:01 AM, Blogger AMS said...

Jésu! calm the shits man! Sounds a bit scary

 
At 6:01 AM, Blogger katarina said...

To be fair, isn't that why you let Paul go? He wasn't making enough time for you.

I'm not saying he should've reacted like that. That's kind of scarey.

 
At 7:04 AM, Blogger MollyNormal said...

It's feast or famine isn't it? He sounds like smotherer though - kinda creepy.

By the way - WTF happened to Pixel's blog and why were we, her loyal readers, not informed of it being shut down? Tell her I'm pissed at her and she owes me an e-mail, would you mind? Thank you !!!!

 
At 7:34 AM, Blogger Trojan said...

Maybe your just not that into him...lol

 
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